So a guy recently asked me this... "So what do u look for in a guy?"
I said... "A whole lot!"


Someone (usually someone who aint even tryna get with me) always asks me this question. I guess they all wonder why Im always single. Well, for one, IM PICKY PICKY PICKY; 2, Im not a good girlfriend. I guess I learn how to be one later in life. Don't get me wrong, Im a GREAT girl, but I just know how to be a "lover," if u will. Not yet at least; 3, too busy and need to focus all my attention on keeping money in the bank and knowlege in my head.


But back to basics... what I look for in a guy! Well okay... I guess I'll just list some of the qualities of my "perfect guy"

1. Taller than me. (that would be lovely)
2. Well kept. (Low neat cut ::ceasars only... no fades n stuff:: or neat braids. Either is fine)
3. Sneaker Head. A guy in great sneakers is always sexy PLUS PLUS PLUS
4. Not too flashy! I hate big chains, big watches, ed hardy, rhinestones, etc. Just iron your clothes and make sure they fit!
5. Humorous. (If he can make me laugh he's good money)
6. Spiritual. (Please know and like Jesus. Im not asking for a preacher here but at least LIKE Him)
7. Intelligent. (There is nothing more I hate more than a man who cant talk to me about nething else except girls, sex, and money... beat it! A good mind is a turn on)
8. Honest. (Do I even have to say anything? If Im not pleasing you, please leave me and just be with her. To do it behind my back will only result in two funerals and I'll still be here to tell the story)
9. Respectful. (Disrespectful men are the worst! And God forbid he puts his hands on me in a way I DONT like! hmmmph!... we ain't going there)
10. A License (I dont have one right now and aint no subway comin to LI. I mean its not a necessity but that would be nice)
11. Talent!!!! (A singer, A dancer, A poet, A photographer, A muscian... SOMETHING!)

Now I dont go walking around with a list handing them out tryna find prince charming cuz I know the ONE may not posess all of these qualities but dammit he's got 10 of 11. lol.

How well do YOU match up?

Didnt meet the mark huh? lol

Am I too demanding? Honestly!.... Yeah, I dont think so either lol.