And you thought you were the only one...

lol... picture that!

In most cases, when you meet a man, don't think you're the only skirt he's chasing. I have brothers and a ton a male friends. I've been around enough men in my lifetime to know not to get too close to them too quick.

Sure, I've made the mistake of getting in too deep too soon. I was so focused on him and he was so focused on them. That was my fault. Lesson learned.

I've discovered that it takes a lot for most men to commit to one woman. Normally, they're just looking for someone to have a good time with and if you drop your panties... even better!

Men need to connect with women on a deeper level. You can't convince a man to fall in love with you by doing nice things for him and trying to prove to him that you're "the one" he should be in love with.

A man can spend tons of time with a woman without even thinking about being in a future relationship with her. Unfortunately, women meet men and think "Jackpot! Wedding bells will soon be ah ringin' "

If we learn to take it a little slower and let things flow naturally we can save ourselves a great deal of headache and heartache.

Date around. See what's out there. Don't stop your party because Mr. Handsome with the nice car and six figure salary shows up-- bad example.

If the man you are dating wants to be with you, and only you, he'll let you know it. If not, move on and forget him... unless he has that six figure salary-- get knocked up and take all his cash! (Just playing. Im not really that unethical!)